Nyx Abad

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 Nyx Hesper Abad was born December 19th, 2022 in Gilbert, Arizona. She is a little sister and was always curious about what her big brother, Lux was doing. In Nyx's short life, she loved to visit the splash pad with big brother at the park in Blythe, Ca. Nyx enjoyed walks down 11th Ave in her stroller, and watching Dad and Lux feed the horses. She loved spending time with her Nana & Tata, who enjoyed bathing and dressing her up for church. She never seemed to fuss when Lux would splash her with water, in fact she would last longer in the pool then big brother! Nyx even had a sleepover with Nana and Tata while Mom & Dad were making the move from Arizona to California! How Fun! She got to taste fruit, purees, and rice cereal. Nyx was 3 days shy of 5 months, but it was and still is the best 5 months of our lives. Nyx experienced so much love. Our sweet girl.

 

 On May 16th, our life turned upside down. Nyx was swaddled in her favorite blanket and was put down for a nap during the afternoon. Shortly after, she would be found face down. Her Dad, Grandpa and Palo Verde Hospital tried everything they could to bring her back, but we were too late. Nyx's official cause of death has been ruled SUIDS. Sudden Unexpected Infant Death Syndrome.


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